Tuesday, August 20, 2013

Don't be dumb.

There is something so sick, wrong, and demented with my generation. Ladies, this may be the dumbest thing I've ever seen. Please stop posting it. If you base your marriage off of a few happy tears your husband might shed when he sees you in a way overpriced dress you'll wear once, please don't get married. That's not what it's about. It bothers me that people take marriage so lightly. Marriage is so serious. You are no longer your own person. When you get married life is no longer about you and what you want, it turns into your spouse and what they want. You should consider how everything you do and say will affect your spouse. You should always want to be your best and do your best for them. I don't know anything about marriage, please don't get me wrong. I am not an expert, but this picture, and this post that keeps going around is a piece of crap. Cut it out. Not everyone cries, happy or sad tears. If them not crying at your beauty makes you want to turn around and leave, even if its just a thought, even if your joking, clearly you need to do some soul searching. Please if you feel this way, don't get married. It's not how it works. Don't be dumb.